Plans for Resolving Future Conflicts -If a couple cannot freely discuss any subject, no matter how personal or difficult, the marriage is going to be a struggle. Good communication skills aren't enough to keep a marriage healthy, but without them, the chance of success in any other area is diminished.
How Will You Resolve Future Conflicts?
What will you do if you're concerned about your marriage? How will you resolve future issues? This isn't a question of if you will struggle, but rather, when.
Communication is important when resolving conflict. Be sure to think about the importance of considering how your partner is feeling when discussing sensitive subjects, and work as a team to find compromise or resolution.
How Can I Help You When You’re Stressed?
One of the best things you can do for your partner is to learn how to help them when they’re down. Some people need reassurance, others need space, others need a pep talk—everyone is different. But when we’re actually stressed and struggling, we may not be able to communicate these needs fully. Establishing what you need in advance means you and your partner are able to help each other and cope with stress as it arises.
How Much Alone Time Do You Need?
Everyone needs alone time, but some people need more than others. If you don’t know that alone time is a normal need for your partner, you may assume that they’re withdrawn, angry, or resentful when they seek space. Establishing early on that you both need alone time—and how that manifests—will not only strengthen your relationship, it will prevent confusion in the future.
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